
There is a resemblance between ?happiness? and ?sorrow?, both are unpredictable. Man can only hope to be happy, but not many can ?plan? to be happy. Though many people around are desperately trying to Be happy, Live happy. But it ain?t that easy. Because happiness is unlimited, and so is sorrow. As we know we are never grateful with what we are getting endlessly, we don?t realize how lucky we are being at the receiving end. When we are happy, we don?t realize it. We don?t realize how much ?happiness? is real happiness. So we consider the existing 'happiness' of our life obvious and usual. We don?t enjoy that happiness, at least not consciously. So, when we are temporarily out of happiness, we start to realize how unlucky we are. We try to remember when was the last time we were happy. But we can?t remember it and feel worse thinking that how less happiness has been with us. Some of us feel life is gerbage, some feel its worthless, some feel God had made a huge mistake sending him or her on the planet and some feel so miserable that they feel nothing at all. And like this, life goes on.
Of course, sorrow is also not long lasting. So, there is stage when it ends. And when it ends, we don?t even realize it. Because, we probably think that our miseries are not over yet. Or, we think it is the after effect of bad time. Not many think that where the sorrow ends, happiness starts right away. So, when we are not having any problem, when we are not facing troubles, or, when we are not ?unhappy?- we don?t feel ?happy? yet. We think about some thing bigger as happiness, something dramatic, melodramatic, and fascinating that would sweeten our soul. We wait for that happiness to come. Many are lucky enough to face That happiness. Some people indeed get that huge success. But for others, the happiness never ever comes. But with all of us, there is one common problem, we are not happy when we should be. When we are not in sorrow, we should be happy. When we are not feeling bad, we should be happy that we are feeling good. When miseries are over, we should be happy that the bad times are over. We must start feeling good with what we have rather than waiting for something big to happen. If we are satisfied with our life then we are happy and this happiness temptates us to more happy, provogues us to be more successful. By that we are always headed to the bigger success, to the bigger happiness. But if we are never happy with our life (however it is), we will never be over with tragedies. Because it we can?t dream of something, we can?t achieve something. And if we don?t dream of being happy, FEEL being happy, there is no hope for us to be happy.